Autistic man tortured and shot in Alva, Oklahoma
April 13, 2008 — feebeegleehttp://newsok.com/article/3229109/
ALVA — As a mentally challenged man screamed and pleaded for his torture to end, his attackers held him down, shot him repeatedly with paintball and BB guns, and branded him with searing coat hangers.
“Mommy, mommy,” the victim screamed, to no avail.
His torturers videotaped the episode, with one so proud of his work he listed his own name as the video’s director, producer and star.
Now, two Alva men face felony charges in the undated video. A Woods County judge set bail at $75,000.
“It was a gruesome assault,” said Ben Orcutt, Alva’s assistant police chief.
The victim, Harry Dahling worked with Jesse T. Wallace and Marvin Michael Tarver at a local food processing plant.
Police confirmed the victim is autistic and said he had trouble answering questions about the assault.
“He may be 20 or 21 years old, but he acts like a juvenile,” Orcutt said.
This happened here, in my home state, about 2 hours drive from my house. When I read about it in yesterday’s paper I was almost physically sick. It felt like a punch in the stomach to read about Harry Dahling crying out for his mother as he was tortured.
My autistic son is on the sofa next to me, having fallen asleep in my lap while we watched a movie. He is happy and safe.
But the fear and loathing that has been in my throat since I read about Harry will keep me awake for much of the night. Like every parent, I am concerned with my childrens’ futures, but unlike most parents I don’t have a default cut off point to stop worrying. He will likely need some assistance for the rest of his life.
Will he ever cry out for me when I’m not there?



April 14, 2008 at 1:46 am
I wish I’d remembered that you told me not to read this.
May you and Bede always ALWAYS be safe, and never come into contact with horrible un-people like that.
April 14, 2008 at 7:18 am
What an awful story. I hope the trial and punishment for the attackers is a swift one. These types of attacks seem to be increasing as young bullies seek their fame on YouTube.
April 14, 2008 at 8:32 am
What cruel things we humans can be.
*is giving you a big mental bearhug*
April 14, 2008 at 8:58 am
That’s just horrifying. Job is pretty high functioning, but I still worry about what independent living will bring for him.
April 14, 2008 at 2:35 pm
That made me totally sick to my stomach. what horrible people to do that to that poor guy!
April 14, 2008 at 5:23 pm
How could any one do that to another person!? How very very sad. And he was calling out for his mama, how could they continue? Poor guy. = (
April 14, 2008 at 5:35 pm
That is awful! I hope that Bede never has reason to call out for you like that when you are not there.
April 14, 2008 at 6:46 pm
Sometimes I just want to get out of this place. I don’t understand people and I never will.
((((hugs))))
April 14, 2008 at 10:18 pm
I happen to personally know Harry as a friend and beloved patron to the Alva Public Library. I tell you with the most honest confidence that this young man is the most humble and giving person to ever live in a place like Alva, OK. This news has absolutely sickened and grieved my heart. You have no idea how truly gifted and sweet Harry is. This is an absolute tragedy for Alva.
April 15, 2008 at 5:06 am
It is unimaginable…it has made me sick. I love my Junior more than anything. What species of thing are these brutes anyway?
April 15, 2008 at 3:28 pm
I read this last night and instantly felt sick. My heart cries out with you.
April 23, 2008 at 1:56 pm
My heart aches for Harry. What an awful tragedy. Who would do such a thing?
April 28, 2008 at 8:49 pm
I came to see the kitty you made for your mom (cute!) and saw this post. I am sitting here with chills and tears. For some reason, when I read something that is so awful like this, it stays with me forever. I want you to know, whenever I think of this, I will pray God’s hedge of protection to surround your son….Ellie Werner